It’s funny, the one thing that almost everyone enjoys is the hardest thing to talk openly and freely about. Sex still seems to be taboo to majority of Americans. We don’t even talk about sex with the people that we have sex with! I imagine that the lack of communication about sex is why we believe some of the myths that are on their list of common misconceptions that hinder our sexual relationships. So let’s get started!
#1 SIZE IS OVER RATED!
This is a major misconception among both sexes. Most men are not packing baseball bats between their legs. Most women don’t want to have a member the size of Hulk Hogan’s arm inside of them every time they have intercourse. It isn’t ideal for the long term well being of the “V” either!
The mutual passion that is shared during sex is more important than the amount of inches the penis is packing. Passion can be expressed in several different ways, penetration is just only one play in the sexual playbook. When you consider how many different positions can be incorporated there is no reason to have a one page playbook.
#2 APHRODISIACS ARE NOT AS AFFECTIVE AS YOU WISH THEY ARE.
The multi-billion dollar industry of sexual enhancements that appear to have a medical endorsement from every doctor except the surgeon general really are not as affective as promised. Sex is dependent upon more than being able to sustain an erection or stay moist. Just like maintaining a healthy body is more than just exercise other things like diet, discipline, and daily routines play a major part in the equation. The same is true for a healthy sexual lifestyle too! Being informed about what your parter enjoys sexually is the beginning. Being able to perform to satisfaction of your partners standards is your first goal. Your second goal is to explore your creativity as you explore your partners body. Don’t rely on some “over-the-counter” pill with pictures of Rhinos, Stallions, or Tigers to make your lover climax!
#3 OLD PEOPLE ARE HAVING SEX TOO!
If you watch the commercials for erectile disfunction you might believe that having issues in the erection department is a part of getting older. It can be for some people but it doesn’t have to be. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle becomes more important the older we get, and the truth is Americans are healthier now than any other time in this country’s history. The side-effects of a healthier lifestyle is looking better as we get older, and being able to enjoy having intercourse in later years without breaking a hip or having a heart attack.
#4 THE PULL OUT METHOD IS MORE EFFECTIVE THAN YOU WERE TAUGHT.
In sex education we were taught that pull out method is not a ideal method of contraception. Recent studies show the opposite is true, well timed pull outs are as affective (96-98%) as properly worn condoms (98%). Timing is key to making this birth-control method successful. I still think that the contents of semen is good for my wife’s complexion, (and when I get a wife I hope she agrees.) but I believe that is also a myth.
#5 LADIES, WE ARE NOT AFRAID OF YOUR BATTERY OPERATED BOYFRIENDS.
Men already know that women are apt to have to rub one out from time to time. I enjoy watching the process of climax building and if you take notes it will help you create a climax on your own for her. So bring a notepad and pen when the toys come out!